A warm welcome to ‘This Tangled Web’… This journey began in ‘2010’ by survivor Kate Swift. Kate wanted to share her journey through the pain and chaos of healing from childhood sexual abuse. Her drive to share what is often deeply personal and painful was to break down the terrible isolation survivors often feel. It is a journey that Kate has always likened to a tangled web…woven over many years and entangling the victim in a complex web of untruths in which we need to work hard at making ourselves free from.
From 2010 to Spring 2014 ‘This Tangled Web’ ran as a charity during which time we were able to support many survivors. The charity gave people information, support, opportunities to meet at events, information & awareness to the public & so much more. Kate wanted to keep this website going forwards, after the charity has stopped and hopes it will continue to help many more survivors. Kate believes that it is crucial for survivors to have the help, support and tools needed to go on and live the best life possible… which is nothing less than we deserve.
If your own childhood trauma has brought you to this place Kate wants you to know two important things. The first thing that she wants you to know is that someone out there cares. Secondly that she is sorry that you have personal experience of CSA but is glad you are seeking help/information. Kate hopes that you will find comfort and understanding here.
‘Behind the need to communicate is the need to share. Behind the need to share is the need to be understood’ Leo Rosten
Kate continues working to raise awareness and understanding of the effects of CSA… We all need to open our eyes and work towards greater public awareness & protection for the children of today and tomorrow.
‘Helplessness and isolation are the core experiences of psychological trauma. Empowerment and reconnection are the core experiences of recovery’ Judith Herman M.D.
Please Note: Given the subject matter a lot of the content within the poetry and other pages may be distressing. The poetry in particular may hold triggers for you. It is important to look after yourself…maybe just read one every now and then when you feel you want and need to…maybe read a few when you feel strong and have good support available to you. I want these poems to be a tool to help you…please read them with care for yourself.